Thursday, October 27, 2011
Marriage
I think people should choose the person with whom they want to get married by themself. Marriage is one of the most important decision that a person has to do in his life. Even if he has the possibility to divorce, this person promised to live with the other and to love it until death separeted them. It's not a little promise, it's a promise for life. In fact, it's a choice that only one person can do. No one else should decide who he can marry. I disagree with Israr Mirza when he said parents want the best for their children, so they can suggest somebody to marry him in the second video. It's not because they educate him that they can know which person he will love. Even if parents say that he has the choice and can refuse, he will certainly accept, because if he thinks that parents know what is good for himself, he will give a big importance on what they say. So he will always wait their opinions about important things in his life. It's not good for a person who wishes to be independent. For me it's really important that I choose by myself with whom I will live with the rest of my life. A person should always have the control of his life. For these reasons I believe people should decide with whom they want to marry.
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I’m totally agreed with you when you say that people should have the control of their life. In our generation, young people want to be free and independent to their parents, so I don’t think that arranged marriages could be accepted frequently by them. In addition, in Quebec, it isn’t rare that two people prefer to live together and make children without been married. You also got a good point when you said that the child will always wait for the opinion of his parents before to make an important decision if he lets them to choose the person with who he will passes his entire life. It isn’t a good thing to implant that kind of value in their mentality because they will have a lot of difficulty to become self-sufficient in their adult life.
ReplyDeleteI am agree with you when you say that marriage it is an important decision in your life. But I am not agree with you when you say that your parents can not help you to find your partner because your parents are the people who know you the most in the world so why they will be not able to find at least a person that she or he will be compatible with you. And when you say that person should always have the control of his or her life, I do not know why you say that because in the videos the people do not say that arranged marriage is obligated.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you because love is a big part of our lives and the person that we choose or that the parents choose for us is someone that we’ll see for the rest of our live, so, it needs to be someone that you are good with. If not, you’ll be sad for the rest of your live... unfortunately! Also, as Emilie said, I disagree with you when you say that our parents can’t choose someone for us because they don’t know how we think. In my opinion, our parents see us in all our form each day of our life, so, of course, they are able to choose someone who suits us. BUT, they also need to ask our opinion because they can’t choose alone.
ReplyDeleteI disagree with yuo when you say that marriage is the most important decisions that you have to do in your life. Today, marriage is not an obligation and it is not very popular. Lots of people are in a relationship adn they have children and they live together, but they are not married. Marriage has lost its importance and his signification because we lost also the practice of the religion. Also, when Israr Mirza said that his parents want the best for him, it is true. Maybe our North America mind make us think that it's not correct, but the intention of his parents is there, they really want the best for him. In their culture, it is like this they can give to their children a good start in their life.
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